Sometimes haven't have even a choice, where to make the cakes, because of numerous circumstances around me and the first foundation needed, where most of the kids had it. My life came out of it just better and more experienced with a large number of learning skills throughout my life and today is benefiting me all of that, where many used to think all type of unwise judgments, but I just left myself to the Upper power and didn't relay on my own understanding. If, by any chance the women would take their experience during  old fashioned life while staying at home more faithfully, today they would all benefited from that perfect life they had during husband's head of the house. Each of us has a choice to choose, how are you going to deal with hardships, but an easy way gets you in addition to pass away.